THE UNSPOKEN RULE OF TOASTING IN GERMANY: What You're Missing

You've heard of German beer gardens and Oktoberfest, but there's a crucial part of the drinking culture that most travelers miss. It's a simple ritual that, if done incorrectly, can lead to an awkward moment or even a stern look from your German friends. 

This isn't about knowing how to say "Prost!" It's about a deeper, unwritten rule that's a cornerstone of German etiquette: the art of the toast. Ready to learn the secret that will make you look like a local and avoid a major cultural blunder?

The Ritual of the German Toast In many countries, a toast is a casual gesture. You clink glasses and move on. In Germany, it's a serious and meaningful ritual. The most important rule? Eye contact. 

That's right. When you raise your glass and say "Prost!", you must look every single person in the eyes as you clink glasses with them. Not just once, but for the entire duration of the clink. Failing to do so is considered a sign of disrespect, and in some circles, is said to bring seven years of bad luck. While this might sound like a joke, many Germans take this superstition very seriously. 

Why Is Eye Contact So Important? 

The reason is rooted in history. In the past, raising a glass was a way to show trust. By looking someone in the eye, you were proving that you had no ill intentions and that the drink wasn't poisoned. This ancient practice has evolved into a modern sign of respect and sincerity. 

Other Toasting Rules You Need to Know 

Never Toast with Water: This is a surprisingly common faux pas. In Germany, toasting with water is widely believed to be a bad omen. If you're not drinking alcohol, it's better to simply raise your glass of juice or soda and offer a friendly "Prost!" without clinking. 

Say It with Conviction: Don't mumble your "Prost!". Say it clearly and with a firm clink of the glass. A half-hearted toast can come across as insincere.

 

"Zum Wohl" vs. "Prost!": While "Prost!" is the most common and informal way to toast, the more formal phrase is "Zum Wohl!", which literally means "to your health." You'll often hear this in more formal settings or with wine.

Don't Just Visit, Experience It! 

Understanding these small but significant cultural rules is what transforms a simple trip into a true travel experience. So next time you're in a German beer garden, raise your glass, make eye contact, say "Prost!" with conviction, and you'll be celebrating like a true local.